Fishing

Is there anything cuter than a little boy and his dad fishing? This is one of those weird dreams I've had since a I was young, the day my husband would take my boy fishing. I promised Kaden as we were driving to the hospital when he broke his arm last week that if he was really tuff his dad would take him fishing.
Kyle being bugged at me for not getting the perfect picture the frist shot. Kaden looks great!
Kaden at Walmart picking out his fishing pole. We ended up tricking him into getting they non spiderman one. The one we picked for him was a little big, we should have listened to him.
These two pictures were worth the whole fishing trip. It doesn't get any better than this. I am so greatful for all the amazing things that surround us in this world. I love doing anything as long as it is outside.

Anyone in need of some SUPPORT!!!

Ok, so this post really isn't for men, but it could possibly help you be more sympathetic to the women in your lives that deal with larger than normal BOOBS. This could also make a great gift for your wife. Claim that you researched the best sports bra for hours and this is what you found. She will thank you for years to come.

I am always jealous of those women who can maintain not tripling in cup size within the first few weeks of pregnancy. I am sorry to say but one of the worst parts of pregnancy is your boobs getting HUGE. I can deal with feeling like I want to puke while I am working out from morning sickness, I can't handle the girls everywhere!!! I found the solution I promise it will work. I had come to the point that I was going to duck tape myself to get the support I needed. When you get this sports bra in the mail you will be amazed, I am sure they needed a chemical engineer to design this baby. Once you put it on you will not want to take it off, the girls are almost non existent you could do jumping jacks for hours and feel great. Drum roll please..... The bra is called the Nike full control women’s sports bra. It retails for $60 but you can find it on eBay for around $24 and that is with shipping. Let me know how your lives have been changed mine sure has!!!

What Luck!!!

Just as I was settling back in front of my computer after our monthly company lunch, which was upgraded from Costco pre-made sandwiches to Cafe Rio, I received a phone call from MaRea.

"Kaden just broke his arm," she said it surprising calm considering she nearly fainted Sunday after he cut open his head.

"You're kidding right?" I asked.

"No it's just hanging there."

"So what happened?"

"We were at the park and he was climbing up the ladder to the slide and somehow fell off."

This was the very same park where Kaden played for an hour the night before with nearly 30 teenagers. Starting to worry that MaRea needed some direction I said.

"You need to take him in."

"We're already in the car. I'm not waiting around for you." said MaRea slightly annoyed.

So maybe that wasn't the most useful bit of instructions at the time but it was all I could think to say. I called a couple of clinics and told Lindsey where I would meet them. As I sat in car driving the 30 miles my stomach turned at the thought of my little boy suffering. I was relieved that family and good neighbors were willing to step up and help without being asked.

I walked around the corner and saw my son in the arms of his mother. The band aid covering his two stitches, the dried blood at the corners of his mouth (he used his tongue as a mouth guard) and the arm making a strange angle just before the wrist gave the impression that he had refused to share his toys with the wrong 5 year old. His eyes were aware that dad was there and a calm feeling came into the room. I took him and held him close.

After a few x-rays the doctor at the clinic sent us to the orthopedic specialist in Provo, which was overly cautious since he said told us to leave the splint on and return in a week to see if it needs a hard cast. Linda and Angie had previously made plans to come visit the EM crew (the Smith's and us) and we returned from Provo just in time to eat an early dinner. I sat in the restaurant looking across at my soon to be 3 year old son with a bruised and stitched forehead and a Snoopy sling holding his broken arm and I felt happy to be a dad.

I took Jack and Kade home with me and the girls stayed out for a movie. After Kade woke from his 2 hour nap Riley gave him some pudding.

As he was eating Riley asked "What is that?" pointing to something stuck on his now filthy shirt.

I made a quick examination and replied "Oh it's a mint from dinner, what else would you expect on a day like this."

Less than 24 hours after breaking his arm

Kaden and Jack were playing outside in the water, so we decided to get out the pool. Water was in the pool Jack had already been undressed and released and playing in the water. I look over at Kaden and the thought that I had been worrying was present. There’s nothing better than the summer and a broken arm in a cast. I figured a roll of plastic wrap will do the trick. His cast stayed pretty dry and Kaden was still able to enjoy himself in the sun. What a fun summer we have ahead of us. Stinky, rotten, and moldy cast. I am hoping when he goes to see the doctor again in a week that he can get a water proof cast.

Boys will be boys!!!

" I think I am going to pass out." That is what I said Sunday night around 9:00 pm first of all why do all bad things happen on the weekend after 8:00. That leaves you with the option of the Emergency room, oh yea there's nothing else. Unless you are lucky enough to have a family member as a doctor, Angie I'm still holding on hope for you to bring one of those to the family.

So Lauren brought Kaden into the Kitchen with blood all over his face. I can hardly write about it I'm getting way too emotional. It looked really bad; there was a hole in his head. It took about 10 seconds standing by him and I felt like I was going to pass out or puke. Is there a worse feeling in the world? He was such a strong little boy. Kade cried for five minutes then he was done crying. We put him in the car to go to the emergency room he was a sleep before we got out of the driveway. Can I just say I HATE the ER. How is it they can charge $850 to look at a little boy for five minutes? That was our last excursion to the ER, which was on Sunday and after 8:00 pm. The front desk had no idea what I would be billed for I said "I can walk out of here in 20 minutes and 3 stitches and it could cost me $1200." The answer was yes. The prices they can charge, HOLLY SHI____ . That being said after talking to my mom's best friend who is a nurse said he would be fine we decided to wait and take him to our pediatrician in the morning.

Kyle took work off and we took Kaden in at 9:00 and he just said over and over “mommy the doctor going make me feel better, Daddy doctor going make me feel better." He was really tough. I had to leave because I was getting way too nauseated. He came out with two stitches and one sucker. When we got in the car he said “I so mad" I asked him why and he said” the doctor took all my suckers" He wanted more than one at least three. He said " I want to eat them all myself." My child is selfish what can I say, but smart too. The day ended with two doctor visits, one sucker, two stitches, one shot, and a baby sister. I guess not so bad.

Guess what???

Due Date
OCTOBER 9

The lying has stopped, we're pregnant!!! Don't feel bad if I have bold faced lied to you several times. I even lied to the bishop’s wife, but honestly people should'nt ask that question. We wanted to wait until we knew what we were having. We went to the Doctor today, it's a GIRL. Kaden has been telling us for months that he is having a baby sister. He wakes up in the morning and says “I dream about my baby sister." He always ends the conversation with "she's pretty." I hope he tells her she's pretty forever.

This pregnancy has been totally different from my first. I don't know if this is common but my first trimester I thought I was going to die every time I ate anything, I wanted to die!!! I am happy to say I can eat most things now and not feel like my insides are going to explode. I feel like I always have a headache. I tell myself "drink more water, drink more water." Then I need to camp out in the bathroom. I am at the point of wanting a catheter at night.

The doctor that I have been planning on using even way before I got pregnant didn't work out. Our insurance changed and her office is way too far. I was left not knowing where to find a doctor. As lame as this sounds I started calling all of the doctors in the yellow pages, how sad is that. We meet our doctor for the first time today. Let me just say HELP!!!! He is not my secret crush, There is only one Dr. Hiener. Give me suggestions on who you know that is wonderful, I prefer a midwife, but I am open for any suggestions. I can handle a man if all the women clam that there is no better OBGYN in the world, or even in SLC.

I have not only enjoyed the company of an amazing woman, but I have also have great friends in my life. It is quite exciting seeing the successes in their lives and you find yourself cheering for them. On Wednesday night MaRea and I were able to slip away from our babysitting duties (we were watching my brother's kids all week) and head to my good friend Steve's new restaurant. In the heart of downtown Ogden across from the new movie theaters the location is prime. I was able to eat there once before and enjoyed one of the most amazing rib eye steaks. MaRea has also had their Carne Asado tacos and her mouth is still watering. I am used to sloppy burritos and cheap salsa for Mexican food so it is nice to Mexician cuisine. I had the Carne Asada with a side of fried plantains and some Doraditos for an appetizer. Don't be fooled this isn't cheap Mexican, it is a little more expensive, but well worth it. I couldn't be more excited for how the restaurant turned out and I know its quality will make it very successful. So the next time you are in Ogden give it a try. Trust me you won't be disappointed. Check out the website.

Happy Aniversary

Happy Anniversary MaRea. It is amazing how a few short years of knowing someone can make such a difference in your life. In the time that our lives have been together I have seen myself in a greater light. I have learned that boundaries are something that I set myself. I have learned that love is a verb not a noun and it requires effort and selflessness to show. I have learned that Love is limitless and I feel it most when I give it. I have learned that I am never alone. I have learned that how I show my affection matters. I have learned that it is not what I buy or do it is if I take the time to surprise. I have learned that it matters to make other feel comfortable, even if you do not. I have learned that sharing your treats is also sharing your heart. I have learned that spending time with your child is showing love to your wife. But most of all I have learned my love continues to grow. Thanks for being mine.
Kyle

Happy Birthday Kyle

It's Kyle's Birthday today. I have to admit sometimes I have a hard time remembering if his birthday is the 28th or the 30th. Kyle tells me that I should never admit to such a depressing thing. Our wedding anniversary is April 30th, two big dates, someone needs to mix them up once in a while.

Thanks Kyle for all that you do for our family. I feel so honored to call you mine. I hope you have a wonderful birthday even if we have to baby-sit all week.

Decisions

As many of you know MaRea has been quite sick these last few days. Wednesday I left work early to be with her and help where I could. When I returned home I found her in bed clearly unable to do much of anything. I brought home four movies (thanks to Redbox) and spent the rest of the day just being with her. It felt good to be able to take care of her after all she does for me. The next morning I decided to take the day off. It turned out to be a great day. Not only did I get to do my part in helping her feel better, but I got to spend the entire day with Kade.

We started by working out in the yard. Most of the time he loves helping me work. As I was digging he would occasionally trip and say "I'm OK", then he would pick up a shovel and start moving dirt and proudly state "I'm doing it daddy." After getting our holes dug it was off to WalMart. I decided to make dutch oven ribs, potatoes and cobbler. At Walmart Kaden got to choose a tractor that he could have after he did his business (I refuse to write "poops in the potty"). His eyes lit up like christmas morning and he picked a tractor he later had to sleep with during his nap. We invited Lindsey and Riley over to enjoy the dutch oven dinner (it was spectacular). Even the depressing loss by the Jazz couldn't have ruined that day and MaRea is getting alot better. She said Kaden was so excited that I didn't go to work. A day like yesterday puts perspective how good things are in my life.

As I reflect on the decisions made in my life whether by me or by someone else I am so grateful for all of them. Even the most painful ones. Because without them I would not be who I am and I would not be with who I am with.

Treehouse

If we can't have Mitt Romney in the White House, I guess Kaden would make a great Mormon President!!





If you have ever thought about going to the Tree House in Ogden, do it! There is so much to do you could go once a week and your kids would be entertained. It is a blast and even a great deal, knowing how cheap I am that's a plus.

Ashley and I have wanted to get together forever so, we finally made a date and did it YIPPEE!!! Max and Kaden had so much fun running from the Fire truck, building blocks, music room and so much more.

It was a little odd Kaden was dressed up in the fireman’s outfit and he and Max and been riding and driving the fire truck. Kaden ran over to me and said “I need these off" that would be the fireman’s outfit. He was terrified I had never seen him like this before he went screaming and running out the doors saying “I need to get out, I need to get out!!" He was so scared, it was weird. After talking to him outside and explaining to him the building was not on fire it was just a pretend fire truck. He calmed down and decided to go and have some more fun. He would get scared at random times and try to find his way out. I don't know where he has learned about fire and the danger of it but, apparently he understands. He still talks about the fire truck and how fire can kill him, but can't stop talking about when we can go to the tree house again.

We went to Lunch at Sonora Grill. Kyle's friend Steve is the owner so it was fun seeing all the things they have done with it. Sonora Grill, it was amazing food. I got carne asada with tortillas it was really good. It is defintetly worth trying out. The prices are a little high, but the food is excellent worth the trade.




We went over to the surf place across the street and let the boys watch. They were so cute they wanted to take off their shirts and lounge out. Kaden ruined the moment by running straight for the water which meant we had to go.

It was one of those days that you didn't want it to end. It had been so long that Ash and I had gotten together. I hope everyone has a chance in their life time to have a friend like Ashley. She is the type of friend to take the time not only to ask a question, but then actually care to listen, despite me always forgetting her birthday every year she doesn’t forget mine, She remembers the small things in your life that really don't matter only someone who really cares about would know. She is a friend that I know will be with me throughout my life good and bad, the one sitting on the front row of my funeral totally in style. Even at the age of 90 she will be looking hot!!! There are several other things that make a great friend that Ashley emulates to those around her. Those are the people you want to surround yourself with. Thanks Ash for the friend that you are!!!

Dexter

We have started to watch this show called Dexter. It's on Sunday nights at 9:00 P.M. I am torn between loving the show and being appalled that they would put something like this on T.V. it's pretty graphic. Dexter is a serial killer he thinks it's his duty to kill people who deserves it. Dexter is a special agent who investigates murders so he understands what is going on in the killers minds. It puts this Hollywood star image on killing, that's why most times after we are done watching I tell Kyle "that is the worst show I have ever seem" but, I wouldn't miss the next episode. Watch the show and let me know what you think? The worst show you've seen or that it is as good as 24.

I have been tagged
Yes it's true I'm actually doing one.


Q. where were you 10 years ago?

I was getting ready to graduate from Mountain Crest. I wanted to move to Oklahoma and become an Herbalist. That is all I could think about leading up to graduation.

Q. 5 things to do on my "to do" list today?

1. Watch general conference
2. Make cinnamon rolls
3. Laundry
4. Shopping
5. Clean my house, sounds like fun huh

Q. 5 foods I enjoy...

1. I love New York Burritos. Kyle doesn’t understand the love I have for them. Seeing how every New York Burrito joint I find goes out of business soon after isn't a good sign. I still love them and could eat them most days of the week
2. Laura's Carmel popcorn
3. Miso Salmon from Hamilton's in Logan
4. Puff strawberries, they're hard to find.
5. Arepas from Venezuela with this cheese that totally stinks. I find myself laying awake at night wishing I could just have one more of these, what I would do for just one!!!


Q. what would you do if you were suddenly a billionaire

Buy a huge farm, build a house and a huge workshop with every wood working tool there is, one just like Norms. Kyle could quite his job and just work with wood all day, he would be in heaven. I would love to buy run down homes and fix them up for fun on the side. NEVER worry about money again. I would love to buy something for each one of siblings something they have always wanted but, would never buy for themselves. How fun would that be.

Kim: I would get her a house of her dreams that she has been planning for years up in the hills of Paradise.
Karen: Escalade,
Brent: Build him his own 18 hole golf course, he can hire dad to mow the lawn.
Dave: 2008 Mastercraft with its own man made Wakeboard Lake and a Cheese and cracker shop that's right on the lake side. He would throw some unforgettable parties.
Mark: A life supply of Depends "diapers".
Laura: A Mini Cooper and a huge ranch with tree huts, rivers, and ponds.
Paul: He would get the Jet of his dreams.
Lindsey: build her a huge library with every love story that has ever been written. She wouldn't ever need to go to Borders or the public library again.
Angie: I would buy Cams heart then crush into a million pieces; no I wouldn't do that I would give her cash so she could travel around the world. She could bask out on the beach and finally win!!! Every year in Hawaii that is her one goal to get darker than me she always looses.

Q.5 jobs I have had...

1. Stuffing transfers. I would day dream in 5th grade about how fast I could do my transfers and how much I could make in an hour the love I had for my transfers. I would even get up early before the school bus picked me up from the office and try to stuff as many as I could to get the day started. That didn't last forever but I did it weird a 5th grader driven by money where can you find that today?

2. Bagging Groceries at Smith's. I got the job because there was a boy that I thought was totally cute who was a checker. It was a motivator to go to work. If you have teenagers and they don't want to get a job. Tell them to find someone they think is cute and apply to work there.

3. NES. I loved this job I worked there for three years. I worked with disabled adults. We would go and do fun things all over Logan. My family loved getting to know several of them. I think Special K was their favorite. I learned so much from this job, I learned how to love the disabled community. Every time I see someone in town or on T.V. I immediately feel an immense amount of love for them. Many times I start to tear up from knowing how much Gods loves these special people. What a blessing they are to all of those who allow them to touch their heart.

4. Nanny in Maryland. It was fun but I am glad I never have to do that again.

5. Sold living Scriptures. The worst summer of my life. I feel bad for every person that bought them; they are probably still paying $34.85 a month for one movie that last 28 minutes.

Q.5 things you don't know about me...

1. I gave Hugo Chavez a Book of Mormon on my mission. I was so sure that he was going to read it and be converted. I even wrote him a follow up letter and tried to send it to his office in Caracas. If I only had that kind of faith now, why do we change?

2. My dream growing up was to become a Master Herbalist and have my own clinic with all my tinctures, huge herb garden. I would treat everything and everyone under the sun. At times I think well, I will just do it in heaven, but we will not get sick so that plan seems to not work.

3. This may sound contrary to what my family thinks or how I was in my younger days. I hate talking about Poo. I don't want to know when someone needs to go and that they just went. I don't even like Kyle to tell me anything about that subject. Believe it! It's true. I still love the fart machine. Give me, my sisters and Wal-Mart and I will have the time of my life for an hour.

4. I love mowing the lawn, doing yard work, well anything that has to do with the yard.

5. I would love to have twins or even triplets. I would love to adopt a child someday.

Q. 5 places I have lived

1. Logan
2. Paris, Vann, France
3. Venezuela
4. New Mexico
5. Maryland

Happy Easter

We had a fun time taking Kaden to all of the different Easter egg hunts. When he found an egg he had to open the egg and eat the candy. I guess he doesn't get that you need to find as many eggs as you can, as fast as you can. After he found his eggs he was not going to let them out of his sight. All the other kids went and played on the swings and slide, not Kade he wanted to be right were he could see ALL of his eggs. You might think I deprive him of sugar, but I can assure you that is
not the case.


Kaden only got a whopping 2 eggs. He ran past the fist 200 eggs who knows why. Every last egg was out of sight with in 3 minutes. For those children who think they can sit and enjoy there jelly beans only get a few of them.

What a Great Mom I Have

We went to Ogden last week for Kyle's Weber High Alumni basketball tournament. Kaden and I went to Logan for the week to spend time with my mom. Can I just tell you I have the best MOM in the whole world. She was so fun, she took the day off work and tried very hard to stay out of the library and off her computer. Some of my favorite pastimes in Logan are going to lunch with everyone. That is one thing I miss about Logan so so much. The part that even stinks worse is that everyone that would go to lunch has moved, Nick and Laura are in Georgia, Paul and Nicole are in Boise, Lindsey and Riley are in Eagle Mountain. Kim, Lee, Mom, Dad, and Angie are still there which I guess is still enough to make for a great get together for lunch. Our favorite places to go are Hamilton’s, Cafe Sabor, Center Street, Cafe Rio, and of course if Dad is in town the China Buffet or Mandarin Garden. I loved being back in Logan and having the opportunity to have time with just my mom and Kaden, did I mention she is the best Grandma in the world!!! Mom knows that Kaden LOVES all fruit, so the cute grandma that she is she went to Sams Club and got watermelon, blueberries, strawberries, and blackberries. Kaden thought he was in heaven. He sat at the island eating fruit for at least 30 minutes. He came home with clean bowels to say the least. I had mentioned how good carrot juice sounded, so of course mom bought a huge thing of carrots and made me some carrot juice. It made me want to cry to think what a great mom she is so sensitive to everyone’s wants, needs and desires.

Happy Saint Partrick's Day

I wanted to do something fun for Saint Patrick’s Day. We thought that it would be fun to make "Green Eggs and Ham" Kaden loved reading the book, especially knowing that he was going to get to eat what Sam ate. Lindsey and Riley come over for dinner, we are so glad to have them so close. We made sugar cookies after dinner. I think Kaden just ate the frosting; he even frosted his green wheat bread. It just might have to be a new tradition in the Hess family.

Don't you love, when you have a kid you get to experience your childhood all over again and again with each child that you have. I only have one but I am sure it is the same with each kid. How many times would you ride down the slide at the park, enjoy every animal at the Zoo like it was the first time you had ever seen an elephant ("Dumbo" In Kaden's world), watch Sesame Street, make a snowman, get out the playdough, and fly a kite. These are just a few of things that I think are incredibly fun to do with Kaden.
Yesterday Kyle, Kaden, and I went to the Zoo. It was fun seeing all the animals that Kaden has been learning the last few months. His favorite animal was the baby giraffe. He was a little perplexed by the elephants he said they were "soooo big." He loved seeing the penguins thanks to Happy Feet.

We took Kaden to the Jazz game, he did great, all he wanted to see was The Bear. The Jazz won thank goodness because Kyle was just about to lose it. To all of you who know Kyle, he is a very calm and loving person, but when it comes to sports there is a beast unleashed from within his soul.

Kids say the darndest things!!

The joy of a Snowman

All Kaden could think about when it started to snow, was when he could get outside and make a snowman. I don't know why he has such a fascination about snowmen. Every snowman we pass in the car Kaden screams "mommy mommy a snowman" Kyle is always such a good sport and loves to go and play outside in the cold with Kade. They were outside for hours this day making snowmen riding on the four wheeler and sledding, they started a snow cave but didn’t quite finish it. There's no place on this earth like the FARM. There are so many fun things to do. As kids we were always outside. Television was not a part of our daily lives.

40 miles in 4 hours

So most of you know we live in Eagle Mountain and we love it, but every once in a while it has its negatives. Yesterday for example I played basketball at work and left an hour later as usual. BAD DECISION. By the time I got on the road the snow and wind were unbelievable. It took me 2 and a half hours to get about 15 miles from home. The time was now 6:30 and both roads into EM were blocked due to accidents. So after a pit stop at Smiths with about 200 other people. I decided to get back on the road for another hour drive until I made it home at 8:07 pm. I drove 40 miles in 4 hours. There were times I couldn't see 5 feet in front of the car. But luckily I wasn't one of the 40 people that had to abandon their car on the road into EM. The funny thing is that if I would have left at the normal time (3 or 3:30) I would have been home by 4:30. I wonder if there are job openings in Phoenix???
-Kyle

I think I hate blogging!!!

I think this woman would have a better chance of getting this whole blogging thing figured out without giving up several times.
I have not blogged for a long time. The last several posts have been from Kyle hence the lack of photos. We had the internet for sometime thanks to, well who knows one of our neighbors, and then they secured their line. What were they thinking didn't they understand we depended on them. Don't say you have never surfed off someone’s wireless network. Kyle finally convinced me that it would be worth the money to get our own line. You could say that I am beyond CHEAP; I especially hate to spend money on things that I was getting for Free. It was a secret sin that I loved and would probably still be committing if someone around me had an unsecured network. To all of you have your network open to the rest of the world I thank you. Getting to the point why I think I hate blogging. I thought I might TRY to change our boring web page to something new and exciting. When I did that it erased my links, pictures all the new things I learned how to do in the blogging world. So the question is, do I tread through these hard times of bogging, or just give up the ghost?